4. Get over people's thoughts, concepts and opinions of you! ASAP!
5. Understand there is nothing you can't do. 6. You never have to settle for less...especially with men. 7. Big is beautiful. 8. Know you have something of value to offer to others. 9. Embrace your fears. 10. STOP HIDING...Just because you are fat. Fat is no longer a scarlet letter!!!
I get sick and tired of the world defining what's NORMAL, what's pretty and what's acceptable. I would love for anyone to live a day in my fat girl shoes. The simple fact is everyone can't be a fat girl! We go through so much and skinny people have no idea how much awesomeness it takes to be a big, beautiful, plus size, curvy and voluptuous woman. Society has tricked people into thinking “skinny” is better.
My questions is...have you looked at a magazine lately???? BBW's are everywhere! LOL! We are regaining the confidence stripped from us by the world's superficial norms. God did not create everyone to look the same. But He created us in His image and what does God look like....! Think of a color, a size, a shape, long hair, short hair, big nose, small nose, fat, skinny, tall or short. Pick one...God is all of that. So from this point on...Remember how fearless and wonderful you are created by a God that loves you just the way you are. Only thing you have to do now...FAT GIRL, I love and accept yourself.
So listen! You get one life. Live it! Be Big. Be Bold. Be Beautiful. Embrace yourself right where you are in life. If there is something you don't like...change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it and MOVE ON. The biggest mistake people make is wasting time on things of no value and purpose.
So to all my fat sistah's...Say it Loud..."I'm Fat & I'm Proud"!
Hey guys...I'm Kenyatta more affectionately known as Lady Kay. Welcome to Kay's Korner..I hope you connect, create and find transparency, love and encouragement. I am here for you and me! Let's live out loud together. Blessings, Kay